Wednesday, August 1, 2012

PERSONAL | Tears in Heaven


LAST NIGHT, I'm so much happy because the doctor said that my father was now in his recovery stage from stroke. I believe that's true, because he nodded his head every time we talk to him. I asked him if he can clearly saw me and he answered with a nod. His face clears up and his breathing goes back to normal. Sometimes... silent tears fell from his eyes. He seemed stable but most of the time he slept, but the brief times he was awake, I always comfort him with a touch on his forehead and that I will always cherish. I smiled and thank God.

10 o'clock this morning, I got a call from my mom and she said that my father is not breathing anymore. So, I rushed to the hospital to see my father, who have been there for two weeks. As I saw him lying on the bed, not moving, not breathing while my mom was crying, I broke down and cried heavily. I immediately shook him awake but got no response. I just sat beside him, I cried quietly, praying and waiting for a miracle.

We can't dance anymore like what I have said HERE. But hopefully we will - in God's time, in heaven!

Until now, I still can't accept it, he's only 59... why he leave us so soon? I know he's strong and brave and fighting that's why I still can't believe that this happened. I am having a very hard time on how to cope with this. Our life will never be the same without him. I can't take this pain its killing me.

Just writing this is exhausting and every few minutes I get tears so I have to take a break and continue later...


TEARS IN HEAVEN



Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you feel the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
'Cause I know I don't belong here in heaven



Would you hold my hand
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you help me stand
If I saw you in heaven?
I'll find my way through night and day
'Cause I know I just can't stay here in heaven



Time can bring you down, time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart, have you begging please, begging please
Beyond the door there's peace I'm sure
And I know there'll be no more tears in heaven



Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you feel the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
Cause I know I don't belong here in heaven



40 comments:

Mišmen said...

Oh my god I am so sorry for your dad! Take care!

Jofel Villaruel said...

I'm so sad kuya Bernini abella dad past away too now I'm reading your article that your dad gone too condolence to you and to your family be strong.

Jofel Villaruel said...

Condolence to you and to your family be strong pretty girl :( so sad kuya Bernini abella dad past away also

Jofel Villaruel said...

I'm so sad kuya Bernini abella dad past away too now I'm reading your article that your dad gone too condolence to you and to your family be strong.

Kata said...

So sad!Oh dear i hope you much care,
strong and love♥!God hands!

Hazel said...

Omygosh :( Sorry to hear about your loss. He's in good hands now, that's for sure. Be brave and strong for your mom and your family! *hugs*

Hazel said...

Omygosh :( Sorry to hear about your loss. He's in good hands now, that's for sure. Be brave and strong for your mom and your family! *hugs*

anney said...

Sorry to hear that your father passed away.My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Hugsss!

Keit said...

You're the strongest person I've ever laid eyes upon! A bow to your strength! I know how it is to loose a cherished one. Everything collapses and you feel as if this person is still with you, but he's not. And every time you realize he's actually gone, it's a nail through the chest. This pain sucks, but it makes us human. Although I don't know you, I sense you're a person who can cope with anything, not many people are like that. I really hope you feel better, don't get down, we're here for you. :*

Olga Choi said...

I am so sorry, dear~

Diane said...

Omg... I am so so so sorry for your loss.. Be strong, I'm sure he wouldn't want you to be in this state!
xx

Jenny said...

Thanks :)

Jenny said...

before i wrote my first comment, i didn't read what you wrote in your post, only the comments..

i'm so sorry for you.
send you and your mom a big hug.
be strong and carry on, i wish you the best.

Emmanuella said...

I had goosebumps reading this I am not going to say stay strong or that I understand what you can feel but the only thing I have retained from life is that we have to let time and God cure our sorrow...
Everything is gonna be okay and keep in mind that you dad is in a better place now...

Ericka Garcia said...

Condolence to you and your family. May he rest in peace.

Iza said...

This song is beautiful!
I love it!
xoxo
Iza

Popcorn, Pugs & Peonies said...

I am so sorry to hear about you losing your father. I am sending many prayers your way.

*Erin

MS AMYAGUILERA said...

Good luck to him!
Good luck to you!!!!
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Amy x

Jenn said...

I'm so sorry...condolence to you and your family....:(

ROXY said...

Condolence julie . Stay strong and keep praying . Everything has a reason. I know and we all know that your dad is happy wherever he is right now . hugs!



--roxy
itsjustroxy.blogspot.com

Toni said...

so sorry for your loss, dear. hang in there.

carina said...

oh thank you so much! of course I follow you back :)xx

Elle Sees said...

My heart is breaking for u!

Sam said...

Hi sweety, my heart goes out to you during this difficult time, I am so saddened to hear about your loss and will continue to keep you in my prayers. God has a plan for everyone, you must have faith in that. Try to be brave hun, Love and Hugs

Diana said...

I'm so very sorry for your lost. My dad died a few years ago, and i kept asking why, he was young and had so many things he wanted to do with us too. I feel your pain, be strong. Condolence to you and your family

Mai Yang said...

oh my :( I am so sorry to hear that Julie. I don't know what to say.

Catie~ said...

yes, they are :) really? :)
certainly, i ´m your follower:)
have a nice day<3

xoxo

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Caro * said...

I am sorry for you, be strong and take care.

Daniela Macsim said...

I am sorry...just be strong!

Stefania said...

So sad!!

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martienn said...

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MateaTPol said...

im so sorry for your dad, but best wishes to you and your family!

Tina Telli said...

Wow, lovely blog!
I'm your follower on GFC and new follower on Facebook, I hope you follow me back (GFC and FB PAGE) :)
I wish you a beautiful day!
Kisses


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Hanna & Christel said...

that is such a lovely song!!

<3

nanooosh said...

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Nicole Marie said...

Thinking of you... I hope alll the best!

EverythingPrettyGirls said...

Oh my goodness. What a tearjerker. My heart goes out to you right now. Your post was lovely.

xo
Venessa
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Chyrel Gomez said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. Stay strong.

Glass to the Rim said...

i hope your father has a speedy recovery!!! keep your head up and stay strong for him.

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